Conflict is likely the single most challenging problem in today's workplaces...(and
homes).
Research shows that, even when things are going well in
an organization, workplace conflict can pull employee morale down and
negatively affect productivity.
It has been reported that two-thirds of people who are
dismissed for performance reasons have actually experienced interpersonal
conflict issues that reduced their ability to be effective.
Effective win-win conflict management shifts workplace
relationships to build trust, increase productivity and reduce absenteeism.
Being seen as a good conflict manager will earn you a reputation for
being part of the solution, not part of the problem. It can certainly
help propel your career forward, reduce stress, and make it more pleasant
to go to work!
These
three barriers to effective communication have to be removed:
- Assuming there is no need to talk
- Engaging in one-way communicating...aka 'telling'
- Sending mixed, incongruous messages
Don't be afraid to learn something new.
Listening is
a great key to learning.
There is a reason we have two ears and one mouth!
You can learn the workplace conflict
management skills to keep your office running smoother, your household
happier and your stress lowered. They are essential skills for developing
unstoppable confidence!
If you believe conflict is a major issue in your
workplace, bring
Dr. Shaler in for a consultation. In a short time, Dr.
Shaler can conduct a team interview, plus interviews with individual
members and provide you with an insightful and useful assessment of
the level of conflict underlying your every day interactions.
With this information you can determine your next steps
- training, in-house development, mediation, staff reviews...Dr.
Shaler can help you with all those things.
If you already KNOW where your workplace conflicts are
seated, Book Dr. Shaler for a 3-hour
skills seminar - or a one-hour
teleseminar - to learn effective techniques and processes for handling
anger, difficult
coworkers & customers, and communicating
proactively to prevent future conflict.
We offer comprehensive skills development in conflict & anger
management, and effective communcation & negotiation.
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Wise Words
"Growth in personality occurs as a consequence of meeting conflicts
and impasses head on, and reconciling them. Interpersonal conflicts and
impasses constitute problems which require solutions so that a satisfying
relationship may be maintained. Whenever a person encounters a problem
in his everyday living, he is obliged to vary his behavior until he discovers
some mode of responding which is successful in achieving a solution."
-- Sidney Jourard
Need a hand getting through, around & over conflict situations
at work (and home)? Dr. Shaler's "Wrestling Rhinos" book will give you
tips, strategies, motivation & memorably amusing anecdotes to help you retain
the practical skills you'll learn throughout the book.
Buy
the book >>>
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